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1. Being a creature unlike any other
Being a creature unlike any other is really an attitude, a sense of confidence and radiance that permeates your being from head to toe. It’s the way you smile (you light up the room), pause in between sentences (you don’t babble on out of nervousness), listen (attentively), look (demurely, never stare), breathe (slowly), stand (straight) and walk (briskly, with your shoulders back). When a relationship doesn’t work out, you brush away a tear so that it doesn’t smudge your makeup and you move on!

2. Show up to parties, dances and social events even if you do not feel like it.
Realize that you may not meet Mr. Right naturally and that you therefore must take social action immediately even if you don’t want to.
Get a manicure and go out on another date or to that singles dance — do something to increase your chances of meeting men.

3. It’s a fantasy relationship unless the man asks you out.
Don’t waste time on a fantasy relationship. You may have a good rapport with your doctor, lawyer or accountant, and you may find yourself wondering if he is interested in you romantically. How can you know for sure? If he’s never asked you out, then he’s not interested!

4. In an office romance, do not email every time he emails you unless it is business related.
On all nonbusiness e-mails, responding once for every four of his e-mails is a good rule of thumb. Remember, you never know who has access to your e-mail, so keep all romance off the screen and save it for Saturday nights.

5. If you are in a long distance relationship, he must visit you at least three times before you visit him.
Remember, the first three visits are really nothing more than three dates… and on the first three dates we don’t have sex with a man or have him stay at our place overnight.

6. When considering whether to use personal ads, or other dating services, you should place the ad an let men respond to you.
It goes back to the basic premise of The Rules: Man pursues woman. When writing your ad, remember that every man has a type, a voice or a look he likes. There has to be a spark for him that attracts him to you, something that makes him find you unexplainably special.

7. If he does not call, he is not that interested. Period.
We know this is hard to accept, but it’s not that he hasn’t called because he’s busy, or because you didn’t smile or talk enough (or did too much). It’s not that he lost your phone number. The bottom line is, if he hasn’t called, he’s not that interested.

8. Close the deal. Rules women do not date man more than two years.
If you’ve followed The Rules, your man probably loves you and wants to marry you. Your problem is not if he marries you, but when! If it’s been more than a year, see less of him and think about dating others. You’ve already spent more than a year waiting for him to propose; do you have another year to wait?

9. Buyer beware. Observe his behavior so you do not ended up with Mr. Wrong.
Love may be blind, but Rules girls are not stupid! How does he act in the relationship? Is he cheap on dates? Is he critical of you? Remember, The Rules are not about marrying the first man you are attracted to who calls you by Wednesday for Saturday night and buys you flowers. It’s about marrying your own personal Mr. Right — a man whom you love and whose character you admire and can live with.

10. Keep doing the rules, even when things are slow.
Take care of yourself, take a bubble bath and build up your soul with positive slogans like "I am a beautiful woman. I am enough."
You must learn to accept that, as an adult, you can’t always rely on a friend to do things with you. Even if you don’t meet Mr. Right, going out — whether it’s a restaurant, lecture or party — is a chance to meet new people and practice The Rules.

 

 

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说起成功男人，这坛里最近把成功男人的标准定到能上电视。俺幸好认识几个上电视，上报纸杂志级的牛人。俺不认识INVESTMENT BANKER，但俺认识些国际牛级的RESEARCHER。所以牛人都长什么样的，俺还是有点发言权的啊。俺就描述一下。比如＃１，不仅在他的学术界牛，他的文章上科普大众杂志，如SCIENTIFIC AMERICA，他的成果编成电影上DISCORERY CHANNEL。他人上PBS接受采访。他共筹建３个INSTITUTIONS（注意不是LAB），在３个不同的国家。可想他的能量之大。＃２，学术界成就与＃１相当。他不仅是大学教授，还开公司。成功卖掉一个，又开了一个。在他事业红火的同时，他还陆续生了６个孩子。＃３，也是建３个INTITUTIONS能量级的。用他学生的描述：我们老板精力旺盛得不得了，而且早晨刷牙的工夫就能想出一个新的IDEA。。。我举的例子说明牛人们都有一个共同的特点，就是精力旺盛，是常人不能比拟的旺盛。

想想你自己身边的牛人，大老板等，是不是都是精力特充沛？凡有辉煌的事业的人都有非凡的精力。很多人笑称邓文迪的老莫是糟老头。我们谁也不认识他，就知他的年龄及看了他的照片，想象他一定是个糟老头。可写报道文章的记者是见他本人的。说他精力充沛，仍掌管着MULTIBILLION DOLLAR BUSINESS的日常事务。绝大多数比他年轻３０岁的人都没他有精力吧？

所以，我们要进入牛人的生活圈，MATCH他们的HIGH ENERGY LIVING的LIFESTYLE，我们是不是就得提高我们自己的ENERGY LEVEL呢？

我们听说了，也许自己也经历了看似不配，如职业，学历，年龄，种族，语言，家庭出身及成长经历都相去甚远但很幸福的婚姻。究竟这夫妻俩在哪点上相配？我说，是ENERGY LEVEL相配。如果哪家人的闺女不小心遇上了年龄悬殊但精力旺盛的牛人，女孩的青春活力正与牛人相配，爱情来了，挡也挡不住。父母可是怎么拆都拆不散的。呵呵。

我们是否有时感到很累，很烦，或很寂寞，很孤独？等等这些感觉都是我们身上缺少ENERGY。

我们人身上的能量分４种。
１。 CALM ENERGY。CALM ENERGY是我们ENJOY WORKING并且最终做成事情的关键。为什么看别人做什么都能轻松上手，而我们自己却百试不爽？这就是因为我们缺少CALM ENERGY。所以，我们要聚CALM ENERGY。观察你家的猫，就懂了什么叫CALM，什么叫RELAX，什么叫耐心。

事业成功的牛人的CALM ENERGY都很高。跳水冠军伏明霞的CALM ENERGY不是一般的高，它可与金融大腕梁锦松抗衡。所以他俩尽管职业，学历，年龄存在很大差异仍能喜结良缘。

还有要说的，ENERGY CREATES ENERGY。也就是越用越多。不信？举个例子，我们是不是上网灌水，越灌越起劲？

２。ACTIVE ENERGY。 牛人都PHYSICALLY ACTIVE。我经常跟LG去参加国际学术会议。我上面说的那些牛人也去。一次开会地点是在一大学。因时差关系，我醒的早。早晨７点到校园４００米操场跑１６圈，共４英里。吃早饭的时候见到我的一牛人朋友，我知道他爱跑步，就告他我跑１６圈。他说：＂我早上４点就起来了。沿什么什么地方跑，把周围的景色都看遍了，２圈就够啦。＂看，他不仅是他领域里的学术顶牛，连跑步都比我牛。

所以呀，要是有人说她天天去GYM，那是提升ACTIVE ENERGY的一个正招哦。

３。SENSORY ENERGY。 SENSORY ENERGY是人的视觉，嗅觉，味觉及触觉等发出的能量。它激发好奇心，求知欲，想象力及创造力。它使人活得年青有朝气。

４。HEARTFELT ENERGY。HEARTFELT ENERGY是由心发出的能量。它最终决定我们的个性，品格。我们的勇气，责任感，LOVE， CARE，等等都由HEARTFELT ENERGY而来。

与上面４种能量一一相反的（坏的）能量：
１。 TENSE ENERGY。 TENSE ENERGY是FAKE ENERGY，最终使你精疲力竭。
２。 RESERSED ENERGY。RESERSED ENERGY使你越来越体弱。
３。 ROUTINE ENERGY。ROUTINE ENERGY使你加速衰老。
４。 SURFACE ENERGY。SURFACE ENERGY使你虚伪，自私，冷漠。可以说，所有坏的品质都是SURFACE ENERGY造成的。

所以，我们要克服，避免这４种坏能量，才能使我们精神焕发，充满朝气和爱心。CALM，ACTIVE，SENSORY和HEARTFELT ENERGY相辅相承，互相作用，互相提升。在此我就不具体谈怎样提升了，点到为止。因为办法多得很。大家八仙过海，各显其通。等你的能量提升到一定水平的时候，和你接触人定能感到你辐射出的能量。到那时，光鲜的你不用去找人家，自然会有人打听你。还有啊，你已经是HIGH ENERGY LIVING，FEEL FULL OF ALIVE，找不找老公，还有那么重要么？呵呵

Charlie Mason, CFA is comparing the variability of stock returns for two stocks. He has a table that contains the returns and variability for both stocks, but some of the information in the table is illegible. The data from the table is presented below.

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Mike Palm, CFA, is an analyst with a large money management firm. Currently, Palm is considering the risk and return parameters associated with Alux, a small technology firm. After in depth analysis of the firm and the economic outlook, Palm estimates the following return probabilities:

始めまして，私は李と申します，よろしくお願い致します。ご迷惑をかけて，申し分けありません。

まず，ますますご清栄の段慶賀至極に存じます。

早速ですが，…

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刚一个日本朋友转来的，comment说 ：
日本語がかなり変。だけど、頑張っている。ビジネス日本語は難しいかな。

相信在日本的朋友一眼就能看出各种问题。或者说，从来没见那个日本人这么写过。所以自己也写不出来。

不是要嘲笑作者，其实我们也会犯各种各样的错误，，语言的学习也是个没有底的深渊，大家共勉。

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最后再来一段。不行了，我要出去乐一会儿~~

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无政府状态据说会再次晋级到一个新的时期。其实这周开始已经又小upgrad乐。

想干嘛干嘛的日子，我过腻了，不管你们说我站着说话不腰疼也好，真的，我需要过想干嘛不让干吗的日子。或者窜插着来也好，有个调剂。

现在的日子，对自己的自我约束能力是个极大的考验，容易产生厌恶享乐的不普遍病态心理-很难治愈的。

我嗷嗷~~~