偶得催婚团不知不觉多了一位成员。也是，但凡，已婚亚洲人士，不落这个俗套都难，我早就习惯了。
JP男是我以前的客户。成功有事业，爱孩子，时时都对妻子充满感激。
可能是我认识的已婚男人中最出类拔萃的。
这么说因为我比较认可他，
有这东方人的道德伦理，情深款款，温柔细腻。
有这西方人的open minded, life style，正义感，豪爽不扭捏。.
English Native,童年在象牙海岸生活，所以还会说法语，懂欧洲绅士礼仪。
中文水平有待提高，去象牙海岸前都在台湾人，最近10来年也都在亚洲，差不到哪里去
以下是他给我洗脑的独白。
imagine a sucessful man, what does he need in his wife?
Money – not interested
Successful career – not required because it would mean the kids dont get to see mum and too much entertainment, so no time at home
Pretty – cold help, but at best a healthy looking 45 will not beat a 28 young girl with fair skin
Smart – would help keep the family matter in check so that he is not disturbed over small items; but not too smart because he does not want to play mind chess game every night after a
hard day of work
so the smartest women in the world are the smart, pretty women who pretends to
listen to their husband but spend enough time at the qym so that the husband will look at them often
enough to want to have sex with them
Man wants Peace. peace first, homely second.
这些道理我都懂啦。不过，要做smartest就要listenlistenlisten。俺就听着被。
JP男让我有空就想想，如果可以放弃追究mr right的三个致命缺点，它们会是什么。
can u name 3 shorcomings (faults) that you are willing to tolerate from ur mr. right?
 
 
JP男说他现在有12个女性朋友，还在等嫁，我一定是第13了。
i have at least 12 friends who are close with me and ask me the same question: why cant i find mr. right？ i never answer this silly question。every girl knows the answer, they just dont want to admit it。they all want everything and not willing to give up somehting。
NOW
3 of 12 have given up
6 of 12 have high hope but no chance
3 of 12 have realistic expectations, so many 1 will find mr, right soon
他特别举了6个没希望中的一个
酷爱血拚的女人
说他老婆要是有她的一半，他就不会和她结婚。
血拚女，事业成功财力雄厚，一个月买包包鞋子的花销比JP男全家都多。
当然血拚女也不敢冒JP男，她说的‘ 不認識你的話還真羨慕你老婆‘让JP男耿耿玉怀要复述给我听。
可是，不是还有Mr Big很赞成女人买她们喜欢的东西的码。
日本PHS协会的chairman以前是俺同事-一个超级喜欢逛街的男人。奇怪这种男人的老婆居然不喜欢逛。
每次都要他逼他老婆去买东西。
什么世道拉，饿得饿死，饱的包死。
JP男也说了一些BS, 比如：
men have advantage that women dont have because of the independent movement well, in muslim countries, men are allowed to marry 4 so those successful women can choose to convert to islam。。。
 
比较搞笑得是JP男在培养两个不到10岁的儿子泡妞。
并希望他们快快成人，他们可以三个人一起出去泡。
so that is why olie and alie will start young
alie told me he will marry one woman only and he will be completely devoted to her
i told him he is full of shit because in 12 months, he changed 3 gf already
olie on the other hands is very loyal
he is still madly inlove with the girl from K2
puppy love
i cant wait for them to reach 18 and 16 respectively
the 3 of us will go on tripple date
alie takes the youngest sister
olie the middle one
i get the elder sister
（YY!!!!）
perhaps my wife will drive us to the date
my wife and i are negotiating an age when i can be completely free to have gf of own
i started with 45, she said 75
i think we are stuck 65 for now
on one condition that she and the kids have title to all the assets
amanda believes that no one will want to care for an old poor man. i wil prove her wrong in due course
right now, the priority is to negotiate the age down to 55 or lower
 
有意思，无论孩子还是大人，都有自己的游戏，可以玩啊玩啊玩。
不管你们催不催，我也是把MR.Right放在Top priority的。只是可与而不可求，日常只要多做的低调的事情辣~
 
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