Thu 3 Apr 2008
我们相继看了电影《英雄》。飞雪与æ–剑的爱情让我感动æµæ³ªï¼Œè€Œæœ‹å‹çœ‹æ‡‚了故事情节,å´ä¸èƒ½å®Œå…¨é¢†æ‚Ÿå…¶ä¸çš„å«ä¹‰ã€‚为何飞雪刺伤了æ–剑,为何æ–剑ä¸æŒ¡é£žé›ªçš„剑,为何两人åŒå½’于尽,为何人ä¸ç¦»äººï¼Œå‰‘ä¸ç¦»å‰‘。于是我们èŠèµ·äº†ä¸è¥¿çˆ±æƒ…观。
三言两è¯æ— 法解释我们的爱情观,想æ¥æƒ³åŽ»ä¹Ÿè®¸æˆè¯æ›´èƒ½å应我们的文化。于是我给他结åˆç”µå½±è®²è¿°äº†å‡ 个æˆè¯ï¼šä¸ç¦»ä¸å¼ƒï¼Œå¿ƒçŠ€ç›¸é€šï¼Œç”Ÿæ»ç›¸ä¾ï¼Œè§†æ»å¦‚归,海枯石烂。
ä¸å¼çˆ±æƒ…强调心çµç›¸é€šï¼ˆspiritual connection, oneness and higher level understanding and complete trust)ï¼›ä¸ç¦»ä¸å¼ƒï¼Œç”Ÿæ»ç›¸å®ˆ(complete commitment until the ocean dries out and the rock turns into ashes);爱人为先,富有牺牲精神 (the other ahead of self, giving, and total surrendering);相信æ¥ä¸–,æ»äº¡ä¹Ÿå°±ä¸æ˜¯å¯æ€•çš„结局,相å倒是美丽的归宿(The "ideal" Chinese love is more heroic, pure and most of the time in the form of tragic beauty)。
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"I have such a great appreciation for the Chinese form of love as you described. As you mentioned, the Chinese have a differenct concept of love and commitment (compared to Westerner’s) that has been around for centuries. "
而我们的爱情,通常在电影里都是快ä¹å¤§ç»“局,两人æ¥å…¥ç»“å©šæ®¿å ‚ï¼Œç”µå½±å°±ç»“æŸäº†ã€‚æˆ‘ä»¬å¼ºè°ƒä½ ä¸ºæˆ‘åšä»€ä¹ˆç„¶åŽæˆ‘ä¸ºä½ åšä»€ä¹ˆï¼Œä¸€æ—¦ä¸å¿«ä¹ï¼Œæˆ‘们就开始寻找下一个能给我们快ä¹çš„人。
沉æ€ç‰‡åˆ»ï¼Œæˆ‘ç”é“,我一å‘追求这ç§ç†æƒ³åŒ–çš„ä¸å¼çˆ±æƒ…,但是浸染于西方文化N年,我更愿æ„把西方的"fun loving nature, happiness and lightness"èžå…¥åˆ°å¿ƒå¿ƒç›¸å°ï¼ŒçŸ¢å¿—ä¸ç§»ï¼Œä¸ç¦»ä¸å¼ƒï¼Œç”Ÿæ»ç›¸å®ˆä¹‹ä¸ï¼Œåœ¨æˆ‘看æ¥å°±æ˜¯å®Œç¾Žçš„爱情。
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